Somewhere along the way, many people lost sight of the fact that the main point of life, is to enjoy it. That’s an incredibly broad statement, I realize, because different people find different things enjoyable. But it is fair to assume that we do the majority of things that we do to make ourselves happy (e.g. we work so that we may have money to enjoy ourselves in the future).
I bring this up because today I had a conversation regarding the fact that I am helping Peter set up and run a haunted house as a fundraiser for the town this halloween. I was asked what we get out of it, and the person wouldn’t acceopt “We are doing it for the fun of it” as an answer. They kept asking what the benefit of it was (yes, a conversational infinite loop).
I find the fact that people find ideas like this so hard to accept disheartening….. if you can do something for free, and it would make you happy to do so, and it would benefit others in the process, then certainly, you should do it. Well, that’s my opinion anyway….. some share it, others do not.
Well, if such ideas are incompatible with business, so be it. I’d rather work where I could possibly make a difference or help people anyway.
Which brungs us to the next topic of conversation- I quit (one of) my job(s) today. Again. Last time, I ended up backing down at the last minute, Part of that was because of other things that were bothering me at the time. This time, that’s not going to happen.
Firstly, I’ve realized it’s not getting any better, my total wages are still laughable, and the work grates my morals the wrong way. I cannot with a clear conscience participate in Search Engine Optimization. Furthermore, what passes for the ‘technical’ work that this job provided was nothing more than simple data entry. There was absolutely no room for me to grow, learn, or use those coveted (feh!) computer science skills in this environment.
Secondly, although I was thinking about quitting today from the start, I received some sage advice from a most unlikely source- a client we had a meeting with today. He said that many people stay with jobs that they hate, or are going nowhere, just out of laziness, or of hopes that things will get better. You must enjoy your work, at least most of the time (it will never be perfect, but you should at least shoot for something that you like 70% of). If not, don’t wait any longer- just quit. And look for something that suits you better.
That advice, coupled with the conversation I mentioned above (about deriving ‘benefiit’ vs. enjoyment) that occured in the car ride over, convinced me. I don’t believe that coincidences like this come from nowhere, and I have hated this job for quite a long time. The fact that I tried to quit once already is evidence enough for that, if you want more, just ask any of my friends.
Anyway, now the task at hand is finding real work. The kind that is 40 hrs/week, pays a salary, and gives benefits (pun intended). Wish me luck.